9/24/2015 - Shenanigans at the school, AGAIN!

I have lost count of the days we have been in school now. I only know there are too many left, and I wish I could stop this ride and GET OFF! LOL

Note sent home from school today:

Did not get along with friends during group learning. He had a great day otherwise and completed all of his work. Kiddo also had some trouble getting along with a friend during lunch. Kiddo is complaining that the boy plays with the spit in his mouth and that grosses him out. Apparently Kiddo had problems with him yesterday too. Kiddo accused him of eating his chicken patty. The friend denied it. Kiddo smiled, then asked to get another one. We checked the cameras just in case and the boy did not eat it. After talking to the lunch monitor on duty about this we determined that it would be best to have them sit apart. The boy really wants to be Kiddos friend but it might not be meant to be. He did become upset and looked angry when the monitor asked what was wrong he grunted a few times. Came down to BMC for some calm time, Recuperated quietly, then went to specials (art, music, PE., ETC.). ~Ms. BMC Teacher.


Once we got home we asked Kiddo what happened he said that the friend had been chewing his food and a little of it got on the table and he started to gag. Kiddo has probably the worst GAG reflex I have ever seen EVER. And I have a bad gag reflex so that's saying something. But things that gross him out throw him straight into puke mode... stomach clicking, eyes watering, gagging. So I believe him. The chicken patty I make no excuses about. I don't know what he was pulling... hes a kid, and hes ALWAYS HUNGRY!!! Who knows... My response to them was this:


I wanted to send a note to explain about Kiddo today. Kiddo has a horrible gag reflex. I mean, I have a bad gag reflex, and Kiddos is far worse than anything I have ever seen. I have seen him actually gag and heard his stomach click and him almost get sick, so I know he’s not joking on that. He said that Friend was eating something and he was chewing whatever it was up and some of it got on the table, and he saw it and started to gag. I believe him on this. I have seen /heard it happen at other times.

I don’t know what the deal is with the chicken patty. I talked to him about it, and I talked to him about Friend as well. He said he does like Friend. He said Friend is nice to him. And he does want to be his friend. I don’t know if he was smiling because he remembered that he ate it and decided to ask for another anyway. He didn’t give me an answer and I wont make excuses. If he ever wants more food because he is still hungry, he can go get more food. We will pay for it, as long as its not seconds on dessert. As I have said before, he is ALWAYS hungry.

Thank you, Kiddos Mother


*SIGH*

**UPDATE**
response from Ms. BMC teacher from my email: He's so funny. He did not get in trouble today. When the lunch monitor, asked what was going on, Kiddo assumed he was in trouble. Didn't say a word, just got mad and grunted. She asked if he needed to go to bmc to cool down but refused. BMC helper went down there and then he willing came to bmc where he was immediately calm and told us that he was getting grossed out. I believed him, asked if he was ok and then sent him to rotation. He was fine. lunch monitor came to talk to me about it after school today so Mrs Special Ed teacher and Ms General Ed teacher are not aware of it at all.

About yesterday, we are just figuring he wanted another chicken patty but forgot to ask and said the other child had eaten his. We wanted to double check on the other boy to make sure he didn't eat it. The boy was scared and cried about being accused. Today the boy cried again because he really wants to be Connor's friend but Lunch monitor and I think it's best for them to sit apart for awhile.

I just wanted to let you know, not because he was in trouble, but because my goal is to help him socialize well and thought you could gain more insight so that I could help him more. Oh, by the way, he was allowed to get another chicken patty. He often goes for seconds, according to lunch monitor. Have a great night!